Trying to Build it Better and Stronger

[cat03]

me me me! I'm currently trying to get out of... (drum roll please)

• the when-will-S-finally-rescue-me zone

I've gone through a few of the zones, and as AmyC would put in a nutshell:
That which you find hard to do, that is EXACTLY what you must do

GH I hear you, many people refuse to see past their pain. There is a time, prob eartlier on the separation, when we, LBS, don't want to understand. I clearly remember sitting at my women's support group, them telling me I had to decide to live a happy life w/or without H and that as soon as I'd give him time and space I'd "flourish", and me telling them "but you dont' understand, I CANT live without him!!" I didnt' get it for weeks, the leader of the group just smiled that smile that said "you poor thing, you just dont want to get it".