JW:
Awesome!!!! I think having him say that was quite a coup for you. I would love it if my h would so much as acknowlege any wrongdoing or even a half-assed apology for what he's put our family through, but I know that isn't going to happen.

I have no advice to you. You are doing great! Keep up the communication. Having him talk to you is such a good thing! And having him tell you when he has contact with OW is great. My h has always said he'd do that, but never has actually told me about any contact, even though others have, and I know he sees her in some of their dept meetings, and other work related functions.

Have I told you today how proud of you I am? You are doing so well that pretty soon we will all be asking you for advice on how to remodel a marriage from the ground floor, up. Take care! GG