Hi there Sven - Like you, I am finding that once a fortnight on the boards seems to be the tempo that fits into my efforts. I see you going through similar adjustment to the change in pace too. While we are dbing in ernest, progress, or developments anyway, seem to happen almost on a daily basis, and the good and bad are quite obvious.
Once we are piecing, changes are far more subtle, but perhaps more sustained? And the LBS who has been doing most of the heavy lifting is left to wonder, when is the acknowledgement and return on effort going to be evident? And I think it really is up to us to re-frame what develops as the return we have been looking for.
You sound GREAT, though. Get back to the gym, exercise really helps! I've noticed my lack of GAL too, and have stepped it up just this past week. Remember, you are a wonderful person, a fabulous father, and for the right woman, a spectacular life partner. The woman needs to be ready to see it though. Might take some more time.
