Sven, Good luck, I think you are on the right track. Remember what you told me about the OM and how he treated your W. She wants you to put her in her place, but in a nice way, in supportive way. I know you can and will do the right thing. You do not come across as a wuss to me. Like you said, this was not going to be easy. You will succeed no matter what. Here is a thought about the condom. Could a co-worker have asked her for one in a pinch and she said "oh I have some"? Whatever, just try to put it behind you, if you can. I know very well how the anger can take over. Good thing you see it too. Till we me meet again. Ciao.
