This plays to the communication thing you mention - and trust. We fortunately have an MC session tomorrow AM and I suspect it will be a doosey. I have layed out what I want to say - including introducing the thought of us writing out our grievences on a piece of paper and ceremoniously burying or burning them - together. Then because what you focus on expands, writing out our goals as a couple and working toward that....
We'll see....
In the end, she needs to drop that reference card of the "old me". Its not fair and it doesn't make it any easier for me...or her...to get past all this and move forward...
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
