GG it is sooo good to hear from you. Thank you for all the wonderful compliments. Our therapist calls me amazing. I don't feel amazing at all. I feel lucky. So lucky to have found you. Yes YOU deserve AAAA+++++ for being a wonderful and supportive teacher. It was you and Jenny who were there for me when I was so scared. You both kept my hope alive.
I wish we would hear something from Jenny. She deserves so much better than what she was getting last we heard. Before my H turned around I had gotten to a place where I had found peace with myself no matter what he decided to do and I let him know that. I hope Jenny has found that peace. It is really the letting go and detaching that seems to be a pivotal time for our H's. It must shake them up a little to see that we can go on and be happy without them.
I am trying to return the kindness shown to me by helping Ronnie get through this hell she is going through. We both know what that is like don't we. I really do see hope in her situation.
Tell me did you decide to let your H know about the time line you have set? I am hoping that you find a way to motivate him soon. I still believe your H has no intention of going anywhere. Our H's both are lousy communicators and have a real problem verbalizing and sharing what is going on in their heads. I am still working on that. I remind my H sometimes that my crystal ball still doesn't work. Before he would resent the fact that I just didn't know what was going on in his head. It was like I was just suppose to know. Now since the therapy he doesn't get upset if I ask a question. I am still not asking anything about his ema but only about us and our relationship.
Well GG you have given me a great start to this day. There is nothing like taking a few minutes to talk to someone you really care about and for me that is you. Thankyou for being my friend.
