JW: I am so happy for you. You did everything right! I think you are and A+ student of DB! And it's paying off for you in a big way. I hope that Ronmom can get the same results. I have to say that one of your biggest strengths in all this was trust and openness to the possibilities that this could work for you. When we gave you recommendations, you took them, you did the self-education and you listened to all sides before you took action. But you did take action, and you singlehandedly turned it around. And you learned a lot from our mistakes without making them yourself. I know I am gushing, but I am so proud of you!!!!
I realize that it will take time to get over the trust issues. I have several problems with that myself, but it really sounds like he is willing to meet you half-way. Still, I'm with you and would hesitate to spend a lot of money on "stuff" yet, til you are very comfortable and secure in your relationship. Nothing wrong with trusting, but with both eyes wide open! Pat yourself on the back, and keep your story going. I know it will help others.
