i love reading the successes. my h has been gone 13 wks and told therapist he does not want to work on it. therapist said that he should do whatever it takes to take care of himself...h's message is clear but after 32+ years and a deep love i do not want to give up. we hardly see each other and now probably will not talk much (my thread is life is a mess)...have any of you been in my position. I am DBing and backing off but with no results...and i am dying here. i have been trying to get appt. with michele or associate since no DB therapists for 200 miles. i do not want to be one of these women who files out of desperation...but this is a small town and a town of couples...we have only been here a short time and it is only home with him....ideas requested guys. thanks.
