Thanks for the incredible, new forum! (and for the new and improved website design and functions)
This will be a very happy forum, I’m sure. I hope it will be a place for all of us, who desire to KEEP our relationships loving, growing and solution focused, to help each other stay pointed in the right direction. To be able to learn from each other is wonderful.
It’s also great that those of us who are so very fortunate enough to be back with our partners can share the fact that Divorce Busting definitely works. We must also share the fact that our current relationships with our partners is based, not only on the fact that we practiced Divorce Busting techniques, but also that we still practice Divorce Busting techniques and that we must continue the enforcement of solution-focused thinking in our "New" relationships. I am finding that this implementation doesn’t necessarily take "work", but it definitely takes a continual attitude of attentiveness. It’s strange, but wonderful, that I now find enjoyable something which I used to find annoying.
Once you’ve lost the smile, the tenderness, warmth and friendship of the one you love it leaves you reeling with emptiness. If you are fortunate enough to get back the person that left you, that smile, the warmth and friendship and love becomes such a valuable priority. Personally, I would live in a tent, walk to the store to buy food and live a life of utter simplicity…………..none of that matters as long as I can see the beautiful smile and the wonderful face of my wife when I wake up in the morning. In all likelihood, I’ll not be living in a tent or peddling my bike to the store, but I want my wife to know that she is first and that I’ll love her and treat her like a treasure……..for, after all, that’s exactly what she is.
