It seems your W keeps making gradual steps to reconnecting. The phone thing is a concrete action in the right direction.
Trust will come in time. For myself I know it would be easier to love my W again than to trust her. I still love her on a certain level but the trust is close to zero.
I think with the patience you have your W will regain the trust for you. She seems committed to trying.
Don't forget the sun screen.
Rich
[This message has been edited by Rich (edited 12-15-1999).]