I am not sure about her rational for her lack of affection. I think she has to feel first???
She even said to the MC that she did not want to show affection because it might give me false hope. That was a tough one but the mc redirected it quickly before I recoiled too far.
She is however trying in small ways. A touch here or a brush there. I know it is on her mind. I am not sure how to proceed. I am mixed as to when to push the envelope.
Now the good stuff.. I "discovered yesterday that my W had cleared all the phone #'s from her cel that I would not approve off (like OM for instance). To do this she had to get the thing reprogrammed at the phone store. She had been hiding these numbers in memory since July. What a relief.. I guess for her too.
Next bit of good news.. we are going to Mexico for Christmas. Just a week but it should be a great opportunity to reconnect.
Chris
[This message has been edited by ChrisJ (edited 12-14-1999).]
