Tell me about your breakthrough when you get a chance.
Dougie,
I don't think anybody "put you in your place", perhaps you just found the person that you could be and started to like that person.
Rich,
Perhaps someday your W will realize what she is missing or perhaps its comforting to know that you do!
Michele,
Thank you for this forum and this board I have found that in many ways it acts as a mirror allowing us each to see the truth and clarity that exists tangled up with confused emotions in our heads.