I'm agreeing with Amy on this one....you've had a lot of advice today, but basically I think it all boils down to this....the issue will have to be confronted at some point before you two are able to move on...how the issue is brought up is entirely up to you and, like you said, she may even do it herself, but it appears to me that YOU know what you want/need to do. Therefore, it is the right decision for YOU. Good luck my friend.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
