Quote: It seems to me that you are making a lot of ASSumptions. OK - so there was a receipt for a pregnancy test in her pants. Do you know it was her receipt? No. Do you know she bought the pregnancy test for herself? Could have been for a friend/sister/coworker? Maybe.
No. I highly doubt this. When I look back at the stress my W was under the day she bought this thing, I am pretty sure it was for her.
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You said she's irregular, well I for one know that irregularity breeds fear and if she has been under stress for some time, and you mentioned I think that she has a little bit of an eating disorder like PArob's wife she may have skipped a few periods and she's just making sure she's not pregnant to you or anyone else.
We have not had sex in 7 months. If it were me, she would probably be showing a bit by now. Also, as I said, I know she's had her period this month so...
Quote: For goodness sake - this changes very little - and there comes a point where it would be great to give her the benefit of the doubt.
Ok. While I find myself not agreeing totally with OT, I don't agree with this either. The changing little part, yes, the other about it being great to give her the benefit of the doubt...yes, it WOULD be great but I find it very hard to do that considering all that I know.
Quote: Imagine how scared she must be if she does think she is pregnant. Be a supportive and loving friend to your wife - she may need that now more than ever - yes?
I tend to agree with this. When put together with some of the other posts about the possible scenarios she's going through and what I THINK our situation to be, I feel you could be right. This is so hard. It's hard to know WHAT to think or do.
