((((((((((Hugs to you GH)))))))))))))))

Ok, this confirms the PA. Knowing this information does not change anything. The OW in my sitch could be going thru the same thing right now too for all I know. This is just a big slap in your face. Why did she leave it in her pocket, is the question. I think something like this she would definitely want to hide. Anyway, you knew it was physical all along, this just confirms it. Who care? She said they are over, right? Just put it in the back pocket for now and keep on doing what you are doing. I know easier said than done. Do you drink? just kidding or not. Anyway, put the A and the OM out of your mind. You are the best and most respected DB'er on this board, you CAN handle this. Best of luck to you, Mama