OT,
Quote:

--You have been an equal participant in many patterns that were part of a life that WAS needed to change to find happiness, patterns that were neither loving or supportive toward WAS.



Man, you've got me pegged! Yup - he was doing self-destructive things and I "helped and supported" by putting him down and being nasty. For some strange reason, that didn't seem to work????

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