Thanks OT. As I think you know, the idea of "space" is a really touchy one in my sitch, or at least I THINK it is because my W always seemed to want me around more, not less.
Still to this day, my W ALWAYS asks me to be around her, to rub her back, talk, etc. Since I AM gone a fair amount, she usually seems sad or upset when I am not there. She constantly asks me how long I will be gone, etc. This has never really stopped except for a month or so in the beginning of our sitch. Other than that, she seems to both want me around, AND wants her space too. It's like I posted awhile back; I think the important thing for me is to NOT force myself on her when she clearly wants space, and there ARE times when she does. In the past, I would not respect that and now I do so, long story short, I agree that space/how much space is important but WHEN to give that space is equally important in my sitch.
Thanks again for the vote of confidence. You know it means a lot to me.
