Piecing in Infidelity-land...GH part 10

[princess_nic]

Is there no touching going on now (I know you have not seen him but...)? If not, whose boundary is that, yours, his or both and why?

Good questions. Okay, the touching that's going on now is that I will sometimes touch him on the arm or something, or last time we were out w/ kids we were kidding around and I was using him as a "human shield." He occasionally kisses me on the cheek, but just touches me on the arm when he does that.

He used to hug me, but that stopped a few months ago; I think it was around January, but I'm not sure why. The last time I remember was when I got back from a trip in Jan and I asked him for a hug (which I've had to do for the last few *years* btw) and he hugged me.

So, as for whose boundary it is...I don't know. Maybe we're both just too scared to make the first move. He hasn't kissed me on the lips since before he moved out and even for about a year before that it was just a weak little peck.

However, he did tell me a few months ago that he's attracted to me again (rather than ow). I also lost a lot of weight with all this (too much, I was already very slim) and have put almost all back on. I told him this one day a couple of weeks ago when I was wearing a tank top, and he said, "I noticed!" I think he noticed I actually have boobs again!

So that's my tale of woe.