Thanks OT. I too think it was a really important talk, especially because as I said, I didn't intend to have it, nor was I particularly ready for it but I could not let anymore time go by without her knowing some thing and most importantly, me finding some things out about HER that I didn't know.
I don't know if this means we are farther along than a day ago. Part of me thinks we must be but another part of me, the part that was in denial about OM, thinks that some of what I now know sets us back a bit.
So as usual, 2 steps forward, one (or more) back. The important thing is that we DID talk and it was emotional, animated at times, but always respectful and honest (at least I was honest and I THINK she was). No defensiveness from either of us was a welcome change.
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Quote: I think you said money has been pretty decent lately. Can you get her a gift certificate to a cab company so she has a bit of freedom?
OT, what a GREAT idea. Thank you. I would never have thought of that! I will look into it!
