I know you will read my post. Rest assured, there were a lot of NEW things said. I may not have posted a lot of it but again, I was VERY aware of trying to say something new, and most of all, to express how I FELT without worrying about how she would take it. Things like telling her OM had to go before we could move forward and talking openly (which went on for about 20 minutes, a lot of the details I left out) about our/my intimacy issues. Again, I feel really good that we could have that talk but a little sad/bad that I now know she is not "done" with this whole thing. She did say at one point that she has never given up on us and that she still wanted to work things out but that it was just "hard" to deal with all this stuff.