P.S. More from the crazed LBS in limboland.... GH, let's pretend that you are in your W's shoes. What might she be thinking?
"What the heck is up with GH? His desparation is making me sick? Why can't he just leave me alone? He's licking my cheek...yuck? I can tell what you are thinking...please don't talk about our R, it makes me feel cornered and trapped and pressured to give you an answer that will make you feel good. Just leave me be to think about all of this. Please GH, go about your business and please don't expect too much from me right now. I do love you, you are the father of our children. You provide a life for us so that I don't have to work but is that all that there is in life. I need some time to think. Because of our history and our family I'm pretty sure that I want to work things out between us but I feel that you are forcing me to make a decision. Please just tone it down a bit. I can barely make myself happy let alone be responsible for your happiness. I don't mean to sound harsh, I know you are a wonderful man - you have proven that to me by fighting for our marriage - please just give me some space."