Quote: Something else to consider, either concisously or subconsioscly you are coming across as "needy" in this area and its something she can sense.
I couldn't agree more and this is putting too much pressure on her right now. Give your W some time to process all that has happened in the last few weeks. Unfortunately, she needs time to grieve over the loss of the OM (I know, it sucks but it is the truth). She can't just jump from one R right into another. As much as your head is spinning hers must be too and if she feels pressured by you in any way, well you know what might happen.....Just be her best friend right now as that is all she can probably handle at the moment. Patience, patience, and more patience. In the words of Tom Petty, "the waiting is hardest part...."
