Quote: If someone dismisses a compliment, they are often seeking reassurance. Given that she seems to care about the compliments of others, I expect that she cares about compliments from you, even moreso, which could make her insecure.
Ok, um, then I don't get it. So she likes/needs compliments from me but refuses to let me know that? And BTW, I do a fair share of specific compliments in with the general ones. I don't think that is the issue. I actually don't know what the issue is.
And, to journal a bit more...
This touches on something that I am thinking about ever since NM brought up the idea that I was testing my W with some of this stuff. Now, I don't believe my W is testing me on any conscious level, but I have to wonder if all this lack of communication from her is her way of seeing if I can "mind read" as well as OM could and just "know" what to do to make her happy/passionate/desire me like he did? I hope that's not the case because if it is, I am going to fail. I am SO mixed up with all this stuff, I would have a hard time passing that test. I will study harder but in the end, I think I am going to need someone to give me a couple of the answers so at least I know I am on the right track.
