NM, nice post. I agree with you, this might be exactly what GH needs to do. I am in the same spot as GH. 3 months ago we were hell bent on getting our S's back. Now we are hell bent on getting them into bed. We both seem to get fixated on something and then that is all we can think about. We both need to step back and just go with the flow for now. My H told me the same thing in so many words last night. He said things will improve over time. Every day we get closer and closer so we can flirt and act as if it is the beginning of our R, as in fact it is.