IS MY MARRIAGE WORTH SAVING???

[hurtingagain]

I was doing so good. Now that H has his house, my D16 has stayed over there more than with me. Over the weekend, she didn't call to say she was staying over there. I've found myself sleeping in more and just feeling LOST..

It's enough to face my M is over, but losing my D16 is hard. She's so disrespectful and a b**ch when she is home, maybe it's better for us to have this time away. I know she feels in the middle of it and is old enough to choose where she lives. H never enforces rules and tries to be her friend not her parent.

Any of you parents with teens got any suggestions on how you kept track of your teen without having check with WAS every time?