Quote: Why does he talk this way if he wants out? Like still want to be with you occasionally. It really CONFUSES me. Is he just being egotisical? Think he's the ladies' man or what? Any guys offer some light?
Ok OT, ladies, get ready to slap me but I think it's because he CAN, and for a guy, more so than a woman, that is a motivating factor. I don't know if it's so much ego as availability and also you can't discount that he probably LIKES SEX WITH YOU a lot. That's not to say he's willing to stay in the marriage to have it, but he is willing to muddy the waters a bit.
Also, there is the possibility it DOES mean something to him.
I don't know if you can read too much into it either way. I am pretty sure he could have sex with you without having near the emotional attachment that you have, or suspect HE has. That's why the issue of post-bomb sex is one that is touchy for me, especially when dealing with a WAH/LBS wife situation where the LBS still ML with her H. I always wonder how much of that is her trying to use the sex to stay close to him and him using sex, well, to "get some". Sorry to be blunt.
There were a couple of relationships I "wanted out" of but still wanted to have sex with the women. It's a conflict of interest for sure but...
