IS MY MARRIAGE WORTH SAVING???

[hurtingagain]

As I'm getting ready around 7, D comes home. Comes in and ask me to buy them some booze. I said NO. She's all b*tchy and saying crazy things. Why not? During our spring break vacation, she and her friend drank. H is like it's spring break and I was outnumbered as I always was with H & D. They always saying you think you're holier than thou and all when I tried to set up rules.

I hadn't been out with this girlfriend for 2 mos. We go out have a couple of beers, get home around midnight. When I walk in the door, I see a case of beer on the counter. D16 has her boyfriend and another kid I don't know
in house drinking. I got mad immediately. Asked the unknown kid to leave. D gets in my face saying " I told you I'd get something to drink, you bi-polar bitch". I slapped her face. She called her dad, he came and picked up. We had some ugly words and I ended up slapping him in the face.

My friend told me that H told D16 that we'll sell this house and I'll give you 10% of what we make, bribing her to stay with him, so he won't have to pay support.

They always team up and make me look like the one who is nuts and I hate this. I know that our D is going to be so ugly, especially if I am truthful about our REAL family. Do I do that or just give up and let D stay with H, though I know she'll be drinking, doing drugs and whatever she wants under H roof.

When addictions are involved there is NO SANITY!!!!! Pray for me.