IS MY MARRIAGE WORTH SAVING???

[hurtingagain]

In January, he started dieting and doing the treadmill, saying he was going to get down to 200-210 again. Saying if our business sells, he's taking the summer and going to Alaska. That he's tired of working so hard. He just wants to have fun and enjoy life.
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It's like he's given up on being responsible. We've been thru alot with my D for the last 4 years. I do believe there were times he didn't have much opportunity to cheat. But over the last year, he's wanted to go out to a bar downtown. We went once together, but he was ready to leave by 10. When he goes alone, he doesn't get there until 10, when it gets going. I think he's bottled up alot of emotion with our D situa. He think he wants to feel like a stud, woman wanting him, helps him feel good about himself and he's still got it.

He had to stop smoking pot, while my D was in rehab and I could tell in January that he was, then he finally didn't try to hide it. It's like he doesn't give a s**t about anthing but HIM.