No worries VL, I do extend empathy and understanding to your sitch. If you read one of my more recent posts on my thread, you will see me bemoaning the fact that there are so many scantily clad students roaming around distracting me this time of year (I am a professor) while I am not getting any at home to keep the hormone levels down. And it doesn't help that I do have somewhat of an attractive and approachable persona, so many of the aforementioned students can be very flirtatious with me. The point is, I do completely understand your comments about temptation and wanting validation that you are not receiveing at home. I'll comment more later on your thread.
Best Wishes, Chromo-glob
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
