Ok I am a bit confused. I thought the idea of this message board was to be honets with people in similar situations. I am not a troll! Nor Satan, nor anyone trying to validate or encourage adultry. What I am saying is this a hard place to be, especially for a woman. I take it that Chromo is a man.

Chromo if you have been hurt in the past I am sorry but we are hurting too and trying to find support.

I do not want to cheat on my husband-far from it, nor would I want that for any other marriage. I pray we can all be strong but it is not too late for Anorsexia to recommit herself to her marriage. I blame her H just as much as her for seeking comfort outside of her marriage. But when you are hurting, your heart is broken and you feel unloved you are not always thinking clearly.

I would hope that we could continue to be honest without fear of judgement from self-righteous self-appointed prophets!