He's supposed to be on testosterone shots and was also given Viagra to help get the mood going. I was in counselling for a short time. My affair was validated and most of the counsellomg seemed geared toward telling me to get a divorce. She never said that in so many words but would keep telling me to think about it--I guess because I've been in this situation for so long (it't not like my dh lost his libido, he never had one and I just didn't accept it, or couldn't see it) she didn't see a change coming and didn't think it necessary for me to live a sexless marriage at such a young age (I'm in my 30's). I just can't imaging being divorced though. I'm going to read more! Thanks!
