I took my wedding band off yesterday after I was served with D papers by my wife. I debated about it for quite a while before deciding that it would be easier for me to detach from her with it off. Plus, it was just too painful a reminder of her lies, betrayal and rejection that I didn't deserve. She is in such a hurry to get me divorced so that she can be with the OM it makes my head spin. Not bad for a two month A.