Quote: Not to make something out of this that it may not be, but why would some random woman talking to you make you feel less like a terrible person. I know the idea that some woman would be interested in you would be exciting but then again, that interest would be based on the fantasy of a single guy, which is the first thing that would spoil that fantasy for them.
GH - You are right, it really isn't to make me feel like less of a terrible person - just a selfish reason to boost self esteem. That the opposite sex finds me approachable. I am outgoing once I get to know people, but I usually quite shy at first.
Why would taking off my ring make me any less aproachable? It wouldn't. If a woman wouldn't talk to me because I had a wedding ring on - then I guess they weren't really worth talking to anyways. Besides, I don't want to mislead anyone. I have worn my ring constantly since I was married. Wearing it all the time is important because I am not willing to give up my W or my M - I want to fight!
Thanks for clearing my head of the garbage! Being rejected constantly starts to mess with your head!
