I have a question for all of you, although it may sound like a strange one. But here is goes.
I have a WAW with MLC, Depressed. We both wear our wedding rings (at least when we are around each other - I don't know if she takes it off when she goes out). I love her dearly and will continue to honor our committment of marriage. I want things to work out - believe me.
But my question is about my own GAL actions. Being continuously rejected by your WAS is really tough - they don't notice you, they won't touch you, they are not ILWY, etc. When I go out alone for some ME time, I want to talk to people when I go to a bar or restaurant, etc. I don't have any interest in dating anyone or starting a affair - nothing like that. But I would like to have some conversations with women - I guess to help build my self-esteem a bit - help me feel desirable again that the opposite sex takes interest in me.
What do you think about wearing your wedding ring when you go out or GAL? Again, I don't want to mislead others into thinking I am available to pick women up, but I wonder how often women look to see if men are wearing a wedding ring before they would even talk to them.
Maybe I am way off base. Any thoughts? To be clear, not looking to pick anyone up, just wondering if not wearing the ring allows women to talk more freely with me which may remind me that I am not the terrible person my WAW makes me out to be.
