I took my engagement ring off when I realized we were only married in name only. [He had already taken his off] I took my wedding band off when I found out about the affair.

Now that we are reconciling I will not wear them until I feel safe. And we have some sort of meaningful moment where we completely recommit to each other. Right now he is still out of the house. Working on things yet we are nowhere near the place we need to be in order for me to accept him wholeheartedly as my life partner. When I put them on again it will be because I have the same hope and trust that I had when I was given both of them.

Last edited by GratefulMama0204; 04/29/06 02:53 AM.
Today is a new day.