I think OP and possibly my spouse might be here looking for advice. There is only slight verbal contact between them now about the OP marriage sit, nothing else about the A. I see progress being made towards all contact ending about the A, but progress is being made in our R. I was just wondering wether it was productive towards the final goal to wear the ring or not. My spouse already knows where I stand
about out R. I am not giving any future talk.