Moving back is not all that!!!

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I need advice. On Thursday I told my H that I needed to move back in the house. He seemed very understanding saying that it is your home too. He did ask for a few days to "digest" it. He asked if I was thinking of moving in on the weekend and I said ASAP as my living arrangements now are not comfortable. We didnt talk about it again. On Sunday he asked me to a friends house for a BBQ. I went and when I was leaving I told him I would be back to stay at the house. I reminded him of our conversation on Thursday and left. I went to our house and he came home from the BBQ a couple hours later. He seemed pretty ticked off. He said nothing to me except hi. Then went to bed. He closed all of the bathroom doors when he wanted to shower in the morning so that I wouldnt see him. Its like I am a total stranger. I dont know if I screwed up but I was tired of living like that. I gave him his time to "digest" it and decide what he wanted to do.

The 3 months that I have been away nothing has changed for him. He has stayed in our house with all of our stuff and has him friends over and I still handle the bills. What has changed for him? Nothing. If we go on like that he would never realize what he is missing because he isnt missing anything. He gets to see me when he sees fit. I just didnt sleep all night because I felt so awkward in my home with my own H. He treated me like a total stranger that has come and invaded his terriroty. Any advice????