I've still got to get that book. One of the few that is not in my love education library. But taking a pretty educated stab at it I'd guess my wife responds best to Words of affirmation and quality time.
She does a lot of acts of service and I understand that is a big clue that words of affirmation are her thing.
When she dropped the bomb she said we don't spend time together (we're with each other 24 x 7) and we don't talk.
That has changed. Trying for little bits of quality time and slipping in some words of affirmation I believe is what got me to where I am now (other than really working on myself)
