if there hasn't been any contact I don't see why you can't just go elsewhere for a fresh start/outlook. The move will do you good and give you new perspective (and a wake up call to him) Listen to your heart, people who arent' married nor been in this stich will never understand, so take everything with a grain of salt, it is easy for them to say "get a D!" just like people who have no kids frown upon an unruly kid.
Hugs))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
