(((A14))) This is tough, I am so sorry for what you are dealing with.
He seems to not be secretive about his spending and what he does, it is very easy for you to find this information. If he's not hiding it, why not?
Where are you - physically? are you staying in a pleasant atmosphere that helps you stay positive?
Only you know if you can do more, or if you are done. Let your emotions settle down before you decide anything. If you want a shoulder email me at cunningcowgirl @ yahoo.com.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
