Facts girl, what are the facts? What do you know for sure? There are txt messages and large sums of money. Suspicious? you bet. Conclusive? no way. Maybe something went wrong at home and he had to have money to have it fixed.

Have you done anything to protect yourself financially? do you have separate accounts? Your H has gone dark, said don't contact me, and you're holed up being a good little Always waiting for him to pull his head out of his a$$. Get tough woman!!!! Take a chunk of money for yourself from the account. Do lots of phone calls and txt messaging, want my number??? Start dropping innocent rumors to mutual friends that will get back to H, but be careful to make sure you can explain the truth if it comes to that. Go back to the house and take posession of items, leave some blank spots on the walls. Shake him up!! shock his socks off!

And of course, from where I am, it is easier to say this to you than to do it myself. Just look at both sides and be certain of how you proceed.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.