Hi Always,

This was a most amazing post. I read it last night before bed, and then read it again today. I am going to print it out, and then create my own list too. I think it will really help me to do so, especially articulating the fear that I must not allow to rule me but I do not acknowledge enough because I don't want it to be there. It's real, and it helps to say so - but also OK to feel the fear, and then move forward anyway - not let it run my decisions.

I am always inspired by you, your words resonate with me as if they were my own. I am grateful.
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it's a work in progress. I'm happy and proud of me. Sure, I have my moments, but I try to get back up the best I can, and as quickly as I can, and it sure gets a different response from H. I do the same for him. I'm just trying to be more self-aware of the partner I project, how I am perceived and what I want in all of this.




Thanks for sharing your self so generously, with your H, and also with all of us.


PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller