Hijack all you want. I welcome anyone, the boogyman, toothfairy, Santa Claus, the Loch Ness Monster, ANYONE to hijack my life for a while.

OK...let's be flexible. YOU MUST do this tonight. If he doesn't come up, then go down before you go to bed and say this to him. Nothing overly gushy or pursuing, just pop your head in, in a calm tone and a little smile, say this. Then go back up to bed and have sweet dreams!

Really, it's the gesture...the ice HAS to break. I read on your thread that you're fighting a little, so you're feeling a little resistent to reach out, I know, but FORCE YOURSELF to do it. Just this one small thing. It's just opening the door a crack, I'm NOT asking you to jump in the door with your lingerie.