My anniversay is on the 21st we are going to dinner but I am not buying him a gift. I personally feel it would be a lie.
Stop looking at receipts don't get an idea who she is. If you can help it don't even learn her name or anything about her. I have had it both ways and not knowing is easier. These details that you must know about will eat at you for years to come, trust me been there done that! This time I call her nobody, because that is who she is nobody! She is a symptom of bigger problems not the problem, so she is not worth your time and focus.
You! Are worth your time and focus! You are wonderful! Work on being the person you are designed to be!