Hey, sweetie. I understand what you're going through, it was my meldown this Friday as well. H gives so much $$ to OW that I wonder if he's supporting another household??!! extravangant gifts of $ that it makes my head spin and quite sad, as for the past 4 years, I was the one to suffer through intense financial dispair...NOT HER. I have full access to our account and H invites me to spend, but REALLY, dole out $ to someone who came in your life YESTERDAY?
BUT, put that pain away for another day. All in good time. I trust that there WILL be a time where H hears all of this from me.
Not now. He's still in stupid mode. So is your H. Wait until tomorrow to see what the $100 was for. Even if NOT a M-day gift, think of what you're doing and impact it will have on your end result. Did H ever say that A was over? No. Will asking get the truth? Will he lie?
I know you're so angry you could rip someone's head off now. I feel that for you now. But center yourself. Nothing you can do about H and HIS actions, just YOURS. THINK about what you want to do. BE STRATEGIC. Not a doormat, not dumb, not naive, but strategic. Get the results you want.
email me if you want my # to vent and I will give my #. I am happy to talk with you. Especially at times like this, friends help.
