Hey there!!! I just posted to YOU. How nice. Can you tell I'm bored on a Friday night, but really, enjoying the time alone!!! OK, 3rd glass of wine.
No, not giving up or throwing in the towel. I'm still lovingly detached and feeling I can do this when he gets home. It worked for me before, and I want to continue. I also want to set boundaries for myself and get information...it will make me feel I have some sort of control over this situation. With all the lying, etc, I've been feeling a little insane in my own life. Just a grasp of reality. BUT, I have to rethink the intentions. If I open my own bank account, is it to protect my $ or to never look at the joint account again? If I go over D details and get information, is it b/c it's something I think about as a possibility and am afraid that H will rip mne off (he would never).
Or am I doing these things b/c I want some sort of "independent behavior" as H did with his A? I'm bring brutally honest with my intentions here....but, where else can I do this, right?
