Saw/heard from H today. He was very rude, angry, short with me. This is so different from how he was before I left. I am really confused. Not reacting to his emotions, etc., but still, it's clear that he's angry at ME, not just life.
So, I'm thinking....I just read something from Marriage Builders about ending A's, etc. If it's H's plan to end this soon and he's in process, then I wonder if he's in the WITHDRAWAL stage...which apparently is marked by depression, anger, anxiety. I did notice that calls, etc. were less. Maybe that's why he's so angry at me? For losing something dear? He did mention that she was a dear friend, but none of his contact seemed overtly "in love" or recipricative of her emotions. I feel that while I was at home, he was moving away from her WITHOUT these symptoms, so now I kick myself for leaving. The last thing I want is for this to be a forced separation/ending...where it's painful, teary and MEMORABLE.
So maybe I'm just flattering myself in thinking that this is his reaction to my possible leaving him.
What do you all think? Any insight is most helpful. I am so confused.
