You know by now I am not a fan of living seperate, but everyone does what seems right for themselves. You also know that for me, it seems the more time H and I spend together it seems the closer he gets, maybe he can get a better sense of if I really do accept the person he is at this stage of our M. But that is hard for us, to spend lots of time together, because of our lifestyles. And if I suggest we spend time together, he will run the other direction pretty fast. He says he wants space and distance, I can only respect that, and offer him what he wants, while we still live as roommates.
You email, you call, you reach out, you don't get the response you expect or want. Does that make you feel better? I bet not, so why continue? You can't change what H does, with or without OW, the contact he has with anyone. Don't think about what he might or might not like. Move your focus, to you.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
