A New Phase

[StrongEnough]

Always- I think you are making the right decision for yourself. Your H is going to have to go through a tremendous amount of self-rediscovery from the A. For my H, it was a long process. Since hindsight is 20/20 I would have to say that our seperating was the right thing for us to do to grow as individuals.

Now, back in our M......I am no longer the individual I felt I was when we weren't together. Sometimes I resent it. Other times......I just don't resent it as much.

My point is, take this time to forget about H, forget about the M and find YOU. Start going out and having fun with your friends. Do everything for you, and not for H's reaction or benefit.

You've come a long long way.....and you are heading in what seems to be the right direction for yourself. Keep the course!!

~SE