Whoa! Always, I hope you didn't move out as a result of your emotions. Last week when I had a big fight with my H I was ready to call the cops for a restraining order, call an attorney and get the ball rolling on the big D. I was so hurt and angry, but in the days that followed things got much better. My H has said several times that he is afraid to open up to me because of my emotions. This is what I want to work on with my C. I need to find out how to calm myself and figure out how not to respond to my emotions all the time.
Part of my problem is I am selfish. It's hard to admit but it is true. I want my H and our M regardless of the fact that maybe my H doesn't want the same thing anymore. When I attempt to get him to feel and think my way he feels cornered and trappped and wants to get as far away from me as possible.
In any case, be true to yourself. Be loving and supportive to your H as you would a good friend. Notice that your actions may have forced your H to protect himself from you. In your heart, be willing to let your H go, but in your actions, do everything you can to create an environment where he feels loved and appreciated and he would never want to leave.
